Harnessing the power of connection to help children thrive
Learn how you can harness the power of connection to help your child thrive. Visit the sections below to find out more!

Podcast
Check out Dr. Tamara's Podcast "This Hour has 50 Minutes"

Clinic
Visit Dr. Tamara's clinic, The Secure Child Centre for Families and Children

Courses
Online Parenting Course: No More Power Struggles
Modern parenting has left many parents struggling to navigate the ups and downs of development. Terrible twos? Tumultuous threes? F$%#$% Fours? When we view early childhood as a time of negativity and distress fraught with conflict, we invite disconnection with our child and further our own isolation as parents. If you’re looking to shed the traditional models of parenting that perpetuate that disconnection with time outs, punishments, and arbitrary consequences, you’ve come to the right place!
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Hi, I’m Dr. Tamara Soles!
I’m a mom of twins- a boy and a girl and I’m a psychologist and parenting coach. I feel very privileged to work with families who have found themselves at a difficult time in their parenting journey. To allow someone into your family and be open and vulnerable takes a lot of courage. I feel honored to hold that vulnerability and to meet families with openness and acceptance as we find a path forward together that brings a new level of harmony and connectedness to the family.
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“Thank you SO much again. You were more than of some help, Tamara – you paved the way for my re-empowerment, you validated me, you boosted me and you supported me in reclaiming my precious turf. These are all important for my soul’s toolkit. And I thank you.”
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“My family has worked with Dr. Soles over the past several months and count ourselves as very fortunate that we found her. We do not assign this high rating lightly–Dr. Soles’ professionalism, warmth, and support for our child and for us, as parents, have consistently impressed us. We have worked with other psychologists in the past and Dr. Soles’ ability to blend compassionate respect for her clients with her skilled approach to building childhood emotional health stands out. Each counselling session with her is filled with takeaway skills and lessons and we have no doubt that our child has greatly benefitted from her work with Dr. Soles..”
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“Tamara is by far the best therapist I’ve had. That’s saying a lot ( I had quite a few). She is caring and kind and funny. I haven’t seen her in a year or so but she still calls my mom to check in. I couldn’t have asked for a better more caring and helpful therapist. After years of seeing her I got my life on track; never thought I could.”
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I could nearly cry thinking of the progress our family has made since you first came into our lives. Thank you; this peaceful parenting path has been a real blessing for my marriage & my children